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The flurry of comments on the gay marriage amendment discussion on Flashpoint included several requests that I keep my opinions to myself. My first reaction is, "...and deprive the citizenry of my wisdom and unerring judgment? Never!"  On further consideration, I realize that any expression of bias in my role as a moderator is fair game for dissection. So let's pull out the scalpel.

Occasionally,  I will assume the role of "devil's advocate".  In those interviews, my questions are usually predicated with a qualifier such as, "What do you say to those who call you a complete moron?" Or, "a cynic might suggest waterboarding would be too good for you".     That sentence construction is supposed to absolve me of any accusations of bias or conflict of interest by reassuring the viewers and the guest that I have no beliefs or convictions of my own and am able only to parrot the beliefs and convictions of others.

In the recent Flashpoint discussion of same-sex marriage, I dispensed with these rhetorical precautions for several reasons.  Some ideas are so wrong-headed and so unnecessary, they don't require a devil's advocate. Changing the state constitution to enshrine a prejudice against gay people is one of those ideas.  As far as I've been able to discern, the argument in favor of restricting the rights of gay and lesbian people is always rooted in religious conviction. Religious conviction, according to my reading of the Constitution, is not supposed to drive public policy.  This is a case, I'll admit,  where I find it hard to appreciate both sides of the issue. And in such a case, I think it's best to lay my cards on the table.

I'd also add that the rules of the game for Flashpoint vary slightly from the nightly newscast. While presenting ABC Action News at 6:00 and 11:00, I hew closely to a "just the facts" approach.   Flashpoint, like other Sunday morning news shows,  is a place where I can add context and perspective to the news- and there is no separating perspective from opinion.

Published Monday, February 11, 2008 4:51 PM by Brendan
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Chuck Anziulewicz said:

That Gay couples seek to marry is not an attack on marriage. If anything it is an ENDORSEMENT of marriage, an acknowledgment that it far better to encourage couples toward monogamy and commitment, rather than relegating them to lives of loneliness and promiscuity.

Ask any Straight couple why they choose to marry. Their answer will not be, "We want to get married so that we can have sex and make babies!" That would be absurd, since couples do not need to marry to make babies, nor is the desire to make babies a prerequisite for obtaining a marriage license.

No, the reason couples choose to marry is to make a solemn declaration, before friends and family members, that they wish to make a commitment to one another's happiness, health, and well-being, to the exclusion of all others. Those friends and family members will subsequently act as a force of encouragement for that couple to hold fast to their vows.

THAT'S what makes marriage a good thing. Gay couples recognize that and support that. And those that want to prohibit Gay couples from marrying do so only because they don't want to allow Gay couples the opportunity to PROVE that they are up to the task.

For those who suggest that the issue of marriage is best left up to the states, it's important to remember that the federal government has a vested interest in married couples for the purposes of income taxes and Social Security benefits. From the fed's point of view, it wouldn't do for a couple to be considered married in one state, then magically "UN-married" once they decide to move somewhere else.

The fact remains that the term "marriage" does not occur in the Constitution of the United States. There is technically no "right" for any couple, Gay or Straight, to get married. And that is why, ultimately, the Supreme Court will have to address the issue of what constitutes a marriage, much as I'm sure they would prefer NOT to.

February 12, 2008 9:11 AM
 

Rod said:

It has always been ADAM and EVE (not) Adam and Steve.  Enough said,.
February 12, 2008 9:40 AM
 

keywest2005 said:

I get so tired of hearing the adam and steve remark, According to your religon God made all living things. So were homosexuas hatched from mars. There will still be homosexuals in the world whether they are legally married or not. I know gay and lesbian couples that have been together for ten or more years, on the other hand my straight friends are swapping beds like clothes. That is adultry my friend and is also a sin. As is said dont throw stones if you live in a glass house.
February 12, 2008 6:18 PM
 

tom walsh said:

The prime purposes of marriage are the procreation and education of children. Chuck A. above argues that couples do not need to marry to make babies. I beg to differ since the issue (legalese for children) would be illegitimate if born outside of wedlock.

the only reasons gays and lesbians want to "marry" is money. They want all the benefits such as Social security. just as heterosexual people don't need to marry for whatever purpose, homosexual people don't need to marry, either.

Going back to the prime purposes of marriage, since homosexuals cannot reproduce, why do they need marriage? the answer -- "It's the money, honey".
February 13, 2008 6:11 PM
 

Jim Pease said:

If the prime purposes of marriage are the procreation and education of children as Tom Walsh opines, then women men and women who can't have children for medical reasons should not be allowed to get married.

February 13, 2008 8:32 PM
 

Andy said:

So what if it IS the money?  Not saying it is - but why SHOULDN'T they be entitled to the monetary benefits as everyone else?  EQUAL rights.
February 14, 2008 7:51 PM
 

Kim said:

This kills me.  The reason is money?? Do you know that Gay couples are considered to be of the highest income.  Furthermore are you also aware that there is no money to be had with the Social Security Administration?  Have any idea what a spouse gets when their loved one passes away?? Try $300 and some change.  HOLY COW... I THINK I WANT TO MARRY SOMEONE RIGHT NOW SO I CAN GET MY $300 !!!!  The arguement of gay marriage is a mute point.  Not all gays want to be "Married," We just want to be recognized equally as a couple.

Example..... My partner is disabled and I am the primary income,   we tried to get our daughter medicaid because health insurance was no longer affordable.  When applying they asked us for our combined income and then denied because "WE" MAKE TOO MUCH AS A FAMILY.  However, when we tried to finance a home they would not use our combined income because we are not a family !!!

If there is something in order, with guidelines, allowing us to be recognized as a family for all purposes and not just for the ones that are picked and chosen.  

I could continue but I know my words would fall upon deaf ears.
February 15, 2008 3:54 PM
 

Tom said:

Right on Brendan.

Why change the constitution to prohibit something that is already not allowed?
February 17, 2008 10:50 AM
 

Yvonne said:

It is amazing to me that there are still people in the world whose personal success seems to rely on their ability to control others.

This is not about morals for anyone involved on the "Christian" side. It is about money...everyone knows that, right? If there is no evil to fight, people stop giving money to the types of churches that like to talk about "burning in hell" etc.  Abortion repeal attempts haven't worked so now they are back to " the sin of homosexuality". There are mnay people using the doemstic partnership and family provisions so they can take care of each other who are not gay or lesbian. If not for each other, someone in these relationships would probably be without health insurance, a roof over their heads, or someone to visit them in the hospital. They would have to rely on governements and churches to maybe fill these needs. Is that what these "Christian" places want?
February 18, 2008 12:12 PM
 

Yvonne said:

It is amazing to me that there are still people in the world whose personal success seems to rely on their ability to control others.

This is not about morals for anyone involved on the "Christian" side. It is about money...everyone knows that, right? If there is no evil to fight, people stop giving money to the types of churches that like to talk about "burning in hell" etc.  Abortion repeal attempts haven't worked so now they are back to " the sin of homosexuality". There are mnay people using the doemstic partnership and family provisions so they can take care of each other who are not gay or lesbian. If not for each other, someone in these relationships would probably be without health insurance, a roof over their heads, or someone to visit them in the hospital. They would have to rely on governements and churches to maybe fill these needs. Is that what these "Christian" places want?
February 18, 2008 12:13 PM
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